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Deborrah Cooper's Articles in Dating

  • What Do Men Say is Sexy?
    At issue here is very often women's attire. To quote an old Cole Porter song: "In olden days a glimpse of stocking was looked at as if something shocking. Now heaven knows... ANYTHING GOES!"
  • If Your Goal is Marriage, Don't Move In Until You Say I DO!
    As a youngster, I was often reminded by my grandfather that men "won't buy the cow if the milk is free." But 25 years later premarital sex, children born out of wedlock, and cohabitation have permanently changed the dating landscape. Should women ever live with a man they are not married to?
  • Love and Dating: The Difference Between Loving and Being In Love
    I was asked recently if there was a difference between loving someone and being in love with them? After thinking about it for a moment, I decided the answer is without a doubt "yes". Let me explain why.
  • Why Won't He Commit? Avoid Wasting Dating Time and Love on a Non-Committal Relationship
    I posed questions about relationships and commitment to a group of singles. Each is seeking a mate for long-term commitment or marriage. I wanted to know whether they thought it worthwhile to hang on, hoping that the commitment they seek is on its way. What should a single look for to know if a dating partner is headed towards commitment, or if such hopes are a waste of time?
  • Rejection - Why It Hurts and What To Do About The Pain
    Rejection...when it hurts, it hurts like HELL. For most humans, rejection leaves one swimming in a sea of diminished self worth. Society is quick to recognize the physical and emotional pain men inflict on women, but somehow fails to understand the pain women often inflict on men.
  • Be The Man Your Woman Needs to Dump Proof Your Relationship
    Women today are definitely strong and very independent, but that that mean that we don't need the emotional and physical support of our men? If you're a guy that believes a modern woman doesn't need you in any way, and you use that as an excuse to avoid giving of yourself, you're treading on dangerous ground. And you'll be dumped soon...
  • Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire! Dating, Lies and Deception Are Often a Package Deal
    Misrepresentations, omissions, and out and out lies are unfortunately a realistic component of the modern dating scene. Here are a few tips to help guide you through the challenges of dating!
  • First Date Disasters and Why You Didn't Get a Second Date
    It's common to hear single men and women say they are tired of dating. They've gone out a few times and run into some serious knuckleheads; folks with no manners, that say stupid things, do stupid things, or with whom there is just no chemistry. If you have a hard time getting a second date, take a moment to examine your behavior and make sure you aren't making these dating blunders!
  • The Real Purpose of A Relationship
    I don't know about you, but I am tired of reading articles and discussion forum posts involving gender blaming, race blaming, and society blaming and why we can't have successful relationships. Why don't we collectively as human beings take accountability for our ills?
  • Everything Old is New Again: 21st-Century Dating Rules for Men
    No matter what your reason for wanting to get back into the dating scene, you need to go into battle armed with knowledge about how things are done these days. Avoid being put into "the friend zone" with these dating tips.
  • One-Sided Love - When You Love Someone That Can't or Won't Love You Back
    Lots of singles fall in with the expectation that their beloved is going to love them back...somehow, some way, someday. When it doesn't happen they vow to love even harder, and ultimately in more pain. So you don't waste your time, let's explore why some people are afraid to fall in love.
  • That Dreaded "C" Word - Men and Commitment
    Are there really specific things a woman should be looking for or examining early on in a relationship so that she can wisely determine if a guy is a committer or a non-committer? My answer to you ladies is "YES, there are!" You gotta know what the signs are and what it means if your honey is stalling on taking that next step to a commitment. Let's discuss them.
  • Are You Wasting Your Time Loving "Suckas?"
    Sadly, many singles confuse the lies and manipulative games of a sucka with a real, solid loving relationship. Blinded by romance, passion and dreams of happily ever after, many men and women open their hearts, minds, homes and wallets to suckas. Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides tips to help you recognize a sucka before you get hurt!
  • Why Dating is a Sport - Just Like Fishing!
    Have any of you ladies ever gone hunting or fishing? You should try it sometimes. It is a study in patience, planning and understanding the male mind. See, we can go to the grocery store and buy perfectly acceptable fish for $6.95 per pound that is already cleaned, boned and ready to eat. But men want excitement, to experience the thrill of winning and the memories and stories of the battle!
  • Sailing The Seven C's Of Love!
    There are seven primary behavioral patterns which dictate the success or failure of a romantic partnership. To encourage honest communication, respectful treatment and unyielding commitment to your relationship, it is important to consider these points when speaking with or interacting with your partner.
  • The ABC's of Dating - 10 Tips for Getting the Ball Rolling in Romance!
    This article answers 10 frequently asked dating questions: What should I be looking for? What does dating mean really? I'm very shy and don't know what to talk about on a date! Are men always obligated to pay? How long should the date last...I don't want to wear out my welcome! How can I know if this is someone I should see again or leave alone?
  • Don't Get It Twisted... You Are Not In A Relationship And He Is Not Your Boyfriend!
    Women write my advice column seeking help understanding why their latest "relationship" went sour. After digesting the facts, it's usually obvious that there WAS no relationship at all. Therefore the writer's expectations of fidelity and commitment were totally misplaced.
  • Looking for Love? How to Choose Smart!
    When it comes to choosing a mate, too many of us repeatedly make the wrong choices by settling for any person that comes along and shows the slightest interest. Approach your next committed relationship with a clearer idea of who is RIGHT and who is just for RIGHT NOW by utilizing a few of these tips!
  • What Makes a Male a Man? A Woman Shares Her Thoughts
    As females mature our concept of what a man is changes. Though Daddy is often our first glimpse at manhood, our desires and expectations change and grow with us. We come to recognize that manhood does not simply mean a male is a man - it simply means that he has passed puberty.
  • Making a Successful Singles Connection
    When it's time to choose a mate, too many of us make the wrong choices and time after time our relationships crash and burn, and end in heartbreak. Here are tips to prevent that from happening to you!
  • Do You Recognize The 7 Early Warning Signs of a Doomed Relationship?
    Do you notice that you repeatedly involve yourself with the same "type" of person over and over again? If so, the reason is most likely because you are either ignoring early warning signs that this situation is unhealthy and dangerous, or you don't know what to look for. The earlier you notice signs of incompatibility such as these, the easier it will be for you to avoid getting hurt emotionally.




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