Article Adventure

Deborrah Cooper's Articles

Display Category\|Title\|Newest\|Oldest
What Do Men Say is Sexy? At issue here is very often women's attire. To quote an old Cole Porter song: "In olden days a glimpse of stocking was looked at as if something shocking. Now heaven knows... ANYTHING GOES!" The Importance of Female Self-Esteem in Healthy Relationships Respect and a high opinion of yourself is a mandatory ingredient in the foundation of a man's love for you. Of all the judgments we pass, none is as important as the judgment we pass on ourselves. If Your Goal is Marriage, Don't Move In Until You Say I DO! As a youngster, I was often reminded by my grandfather that men "won't buy the cow if the milk is free." But 25 years later premarital sex, children born out of wedlock, and cohabitation have permanently changed the dating landscape. Should women ever live with a man they are not married to? Love and Dating: The Difference Between Loving and Being In Love I was asked recently if there was a difference between loving someone and being in love with them? After thinking about it for a moment, I decided the answer is without a doubt "yes". Let me explain why. Mom's Best Relationship Advice and Tips for Finding Love! A mother's influence is very important in forming not only who and what we are, but who and what we ultimately become, how we view the world and how we relate to others. This article explores how parental influence shapes our expectation about love. Modern Dating Tips: A Date is NOT You Coming Over Making Butt-Prints on My Sofa! The first thing some men do after first meeting and talking on the phone a time or two is press for an invitation to a woman's home? A "no, I don't know you well enough yet" response may cause such a man to press even harder and become downright irritated at your refusal to give him what he wants. What is behind this very common behavior pattern, and what should a woman do to counter it? Why Won't He Commit? Avoid Wasting Dating Time and Love on a Non-Committal Relationship I posed questions about relationships and commitment to a group of singles. Each is seeking a mate for long-term commitment or marriage. I wanted to know whether they thought it worthwhile to hang on, hoping that the commitment they seek is on its way. What should a single look for to know if a dating partner is headed towards commitment, or if such hopes are a waste of time? Gross and Disgusting Dating Behaviors - Volume 1 Have you ever dated someone who had an annoyingly irritating habit that kept you from pursuing a relationship? Something so seemingly silly, small and insignificant, yet it so just totally turned you off that you knew instantly that you'd never be able to look at him the same way ever again? Here is a hilarious collection of such dating faux pas that led to the instant demise of budding love. Shyness and Dating: Why Shy Men Need to Suck it Up, Man Up, and Go for the Gold! A male buddy and I were discussing the issue of men approaching women at parties and nightclubs. I couldn't understand why they stand around gawking, but not speaking to the ladies. Insecurity has no place in romance! If you want to win the gold medal, you gotta get in the game. Shy guys need to man up and speak up! Rejection - Why It Hurts and What To Do About The Pain Rejection...when it hurts, it hurts like HELL. For most humans, rejection leaves one swimming in a sea of diminished self worth. Society is quick to recognize the physical and emotional pain men inflict on women, but somehow fails to understand the pain women often inflict on men. Forgiving Infidelity and Cheating - Can We Really Forget? Contrary to popular opinion, men are not always the blame when it comes to infidelity in a relationship. Cheating tendencies are not gender related. To the men that have accused me of being an angry woman, a male basher, or a woman with issues, this article addresses this subject equivalently. Cheating and infidelity is a two way street. No! Stop It Right Now! You Cannot Do That! Why Are Parents So Afraid to Just Say "NO!" Why is it that so many parents are afraid to say the word "no!" to their children? I've observed parents being kicked, punched, talked to with disrespect and whined half to death by their bratty, spoiled monsters. Why can't they tell them to stop screaming, stop acting a fool, and do it now because I said so! Join me as I launch the Let's Bring "NO!" Back Campaign! Why "Nice Guys" Suck and Women Don't Want You In the world of male/female romantic relationships, females do the choosing. Women respond most positively to men that exhibit specific behavioral attitudes and qualities. Nice guys feel that women should choose them. Wrong! Let me tell you why guys perceived to be "too nice" get passed over for exciting guys with a bad boy edge Be The Man Your Woman Needs to Dump Proof Your Relationship Women today are definitely strong and very independent, but that that mean that we don't need the emotional and physical support of our men? If you're a guy that believes a modern woman doesn't need you in any way, and you use that as an excuse to avoid giving of yourself, you're treading on dangerous ground. And you'll be dumped soon... Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire! Dating, Lies and Deception Are Often a Package Deal Misrepresentations, omissions, and out and out lies are unfortunately a realistic component of the modern dating scene. Here are a few tips to help guide you through the challenges of dating! First Date Disasters and Why You Didn't Get a Second Date It's common to hear single men and women say they are tired of dating. They've gone out a few times and run into some serious knuckleheads; folks with no manners, that say stupid things, do stupid things, or with whom there is just no chemistry. If you have a hard time getting a second date, take a moment to examine your behavior and make sure you aren't making these dating blunders! Parental Relationship Soured Over Interracial Romance Interracial relationships, though quite commonplace, are still confusing to many parents, and downright frowned upon by others. Does love really come painted in a specific color? The issue is examined in this parent/teen conflict. The Real Purpose of A Relationship I don't know about you, but I am tired of reading articles and discussion forum posts involving gender blaming, race blaming, and society blaming and why we can't have successful relationships. Why don't we collectively as human beings take accountability for our ills? Everything Old is New Again: 21st-Century Dating Rules for Men No matter what your reason for wanting to get back into the dating scene, you need to go into battle armed with knowledge about how things are done these days. Avoid being put into "the friend zone" with these dating tips. African American Authors: Promote and Sell Your Self-Published Black Book Self publishing is great! There is no middle-man between you and the cover designer, editor and layout people, you get to market sooner, have complete control, and keep all the profits. But you also shoulder the up front expense and responsibility for publishing and marketing your book. There are things you should do make your journey to published author an exciting and rewarding one! One-Sided Love - When You Love Someone That Can't or Won't Love You Back Lots of singles fall in with the expectation that their beloved is going to love them back...somehow, some way, someday. When it doesn't happen they vow to love even harder, and ultimately in more pain. So you don't waste your time, let's explore why some people are afraid to fall in love. That Dreaded "C" Word - Men and Commitment Are there really specific things a woman should be looking for or examining early on in a relationship so that she can wisely determine if a guy is a committer or a non-committer? My answer to you ladies is "YES, there are!" You gotta know what the signs are and what it means if your honey is stalling on taking that next step to a commitment. Let's discuss them. Infidelity and Cheating: How You Can Tell If Your Man is Cheating on You! I often receive letters from heartbroken women, sick with worry that their boyfriends or husbands are cheating on them. The cheating itself seems to hurt them deeply, as it indicates a violation of the marital vows the wife holds dear, but I think its the lying which accompanies the cheating that is the most destructive element in the whole horrible situation. Unconditional Love - A Realistic Relationship Goal or a Romantic Fantasy? Unconditional love... does it exist in adult romantic relationships or not? Does it make sense to expect to be given unconditional love in the context of a dating relationship or marriage? The author shares her perspective on the concept of unconditional love and whether seeking it is unrealistic folly or a love we should all strive to give. Are You Wasting Your Time Loving "Suckas?" Sadly, many singles confuse the lies and manipulative games of a sucka with a real, solid loving relationship. Blinded by romance, passion and dreams of happily ever after, many men and women open their hearts, minds, homes and wallets to suckas. Advice columnist Deborrah Cooper provides tips to help you recognize a sucka before you get hurt! The Phenomenon of Internet Dating The door on Internet dating is wide open for deception and emotional distance. How easy it is to deceive someone about ourselves when we are safely tucked away hundreds or even thousands of miles away. It's easy to hide our true selves behind the computer terminal and project ourselves to be whatever others want us to be. 10 Reasons Why Men Don't Like Dating Single Moms Divorce rates in the U.S. hover at the 50% mark, and more children than ever being raised by one parent. The possibility that a bachelor will run across a single Mom are very high. But many refuse to date a woman with children, and have a long list of reasons they feel such a relationship is more trouble than its worth. Why Dating is a Sport - Just Like Fishing! Have any of you ladies ever gone hunting or fishing? You should try it sometimes. It is a study in patience, planning and understanding the male mind. See, we can go to the grocery store and buy perfectly acceptable fish for $6.95 per pound that is already cleaned, boned and ready to eat. But men want excitement, to experience the thrill of winning and the memories and stories of the battle! Circuit Training: The Fastest Way To Fitness! Circuit training is the fastest way to fitness! Get maximum results in minimum time. Fat loss, aerobic conditioning and strength gains in ONE WORKOUT and in as little as 30 minutes! Sailing The Seven C's Of Love! There are seven primary behavioral patterns which dictate the success or failure of a romantic partnership. To encourage honest communication, respectful treatment and unyielding commitment to your relationship, it is important to consider these points when speaking with or interacting with your partner. Breaking Up On the Down Low - How and Why Men Sneak Out of Relationships This is how a man eases out of a relationship without actually telling you that he's going. He wants you to get a clue, stand up for and respect yourself and for YOU to break it off. He doesn't want to be the bad guy and experience a direct confrontation. It seems he's hoping you won't notice that he is on his way out - and many women don't! Breaking Up and Divorce - Sometimes Love Hurts What do you do when you lose someone you really loved? How do you handle the feeling of emptiness and sooth your aching heart? Love is a wonderful feeling, but why is it that when love leaves, it hurts so much that you can't even cry? The ABC's of Dating - 10 Tips for Getting the Ball Rolling in Romance! This article answers 10 frequently asked dating questions: What should I be looking for? What does dating mean really? I'm very shy and don't know what to talk about on a date! Are men always obligated to pay? How long should the date last...I don't want to wear out my welcome! How can I know if this is someone I should see again or leave alone? Why Women Ruin Relationships By Talking Too Much Women can't stand empty silences and will often fill the quiet with tidbits of information about their past, laying them out like an offering to the Gods. Why clog a man's brain with information that will do nothing but make him jealous, cause him to question your past, or make him feel insecure about a future with you? Really, it would be best if women learned to shut up sometimes! The Importance Of Accepting Others For Who And What They Are Women often enter into relationships thinking "hmm, he has this wrong and I wish that was different... but I can change him, then he'll be perfect!" Men enter into relationships hoping the woman they fell in love with NEVER changes. He wants to feel the way he does right now about her and the relationship forever! Let's explore this interesting gender conflict. Don't Get It Twisted... You Are Not In A Relationship And He Is Not Your Boyfriend! Women write my advice column seeking help understanding why their latest "relationship" went sour. After digesting the facts, it's usually obvious that there WAS no relationship at all. Therefore the writer's expectations of fidelity and commitment were totally misplaced. Looking for Love? How to Choose Smart! When it comes to choosing a mate, too many of us repeatedly make the wrong choices by settling for any person that comes along and shows the slightest interest. Approach your next committed relationship with a clearer idea of who is RIGHT and who is just for RIGHT NOW by utilizing a few of these tips! What Makes a Male a Man? A Woman Shares Her Thoughts As females mature our concept of what a man is changes. Though Daddy is often our first glimpse at manhood, our desires and expectations change and grow with us. We come to recognize that manhood does not simply mean a male is a man - it simply means that he has passed puberty. Making a Successful Singles Connection When it's time to choose a mate, too many of us make the wrong choices and time after time our relationships crash and burn, and end in heartbreak. Here are tips to prevent that from happening to you! Do You Recognize The 7 Early Warning Signs of a Doomed Relationship? Do you notice that you repeatedly involve yourself with the same "type" of person over and over again? If so, the reason is most likely because you are either ignoring early warning signs that this situation is unhealthy and dangerous, or you don't know what to look for. The earlier you notice signs of incompatibility such as these, the easier it will be for you to avoid getting hurt emotionally.

Sign Up for a free account .

Submit Articles
Member Login
Top Authors
Submission Guidelines
Ezine Notifications
Article RSS Feeds

See Your Link Here

About Us
Link to Us
Contact Us
Privacy Policy
Terms of Service

Credit
Taxes
Debt Consolidation
Natural Weight Loss
Mesothelioma Legal Services
Home Equity Loans
I Seek Articles
Blog Articles

$1 Links For Sale

Vote For Article Adventure Content Database
at Top Article Directory List
Free Top Site

Article Top Sites

A proud part of the Zigfield "Man Boobs" Roy experiment

Other Article Resources

Hoodia Weight Loss | Hoodia Diet Pills | Bad Credit Repair | Fishing Alaska | Fishing | Your Link On Every Page | Link Directory
Acid Reflux Disease | Fishing Boats | Payday Loans | Weight Loss Blog | Weight Loss Forum | Easy Weight Loss

Powered by Article Dashboard