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How To Get Your Ex Back and Keep The Relationship

Well, Sweetie, if you want this guy back, you're going to have to go to great lengths, and I'm here to help you figure out how far you want to go. First of all, make yourself a list. Put down every reason you can think of as to why you want this ex-boyfriend back. Be sure you put everything on there, because this list is going to motivate you when you get bogged down in winning back the ex. This list should include all those little things he does or doesn't do that make you love him so much and make getting him back so important to the rest of your life.

When your plan starts to do its work and he comes around, you don't want him to see this list, so don't put it out there on the front of the refrigerator. Just tuck it away somewhere safe where you can look it over every now and then. Your purse is a good place so it's handy during the day, or under your pillow for a quick check at night. This list is going to help you see what you'll need in your plan to get this guy back. Don't forget, visualizing is very important in getting your plan to work for you.

Look down at your clothes and evaluate your overall appearance. If your ex was to stop by your house right now, would you feel embarrassed by the way that you look? More than likely you are in a comfy pair of sweats and an old T-shirt that you have probably not changed for 2 days or more. Get out of those clothes and put something on that makes you feel more presentable. Next, brush your hair and your teeth and get down to the mall. You need to buy yourself something that makes you feel better. This does not mean that you need to buy an expensive watch, but maybe a nice pair of shoes or shirt that makes you feel more confident.

All this doesn't have to cost a lot, just a couple of drop-dead outfits to wear when implementing the part of your plan that includes running into him. You really need to look great when you "accidentally" happen to meet him. You'll want great hair too, so ring up that favorite hair dresser and get over there for a new "do". You still want to be recognizable so don't shave your head or anything too bizarre, but you do want to be a new and different you. A change of style or color or just some highlights should do the job quite well. A bit of mystery will go a long way to making him wonder what you've been doing while he's been gone and why you look so great.

OK, you're looking good, got the new "do" and the new outfit, so the next step is to call all your buddies to be on the look out. They need to investigate and see what he's up to, where he's going and what he's doing there. Once they find him, have them give you a call with all the details they can get. Who, what, where, when and how long. You'll probably soon see that he's going to the same places and doing the same things, since that's how most humans operate. Habit is a natural fact that will help you with your plan. He'll keep up with his habits, and as you know, you used to be one of those habits.

Does he play a lot of golf? You do too, right? Well, maybe not, but you can surely get private lessons at the course where he plays and if these lessons just happen to coincide with his tee time, all the better for you. Is he running maybe, out there jogging at 7 a.m.? Well, put on those new running jogs you bought! What about games in the casino every Saturday night last month. They always need new people in these games, so it might as well be you.

Now that you've "accidentally" run into the ex, you might mention all the fun things you both do. There's golf, jogging, cards, whatever else you may have discovered. Did the two of you forget how much you had in common? Did he forget how nice you were as his habit? Don't press him, but do let him see how fresh and new your gorgeous self is. Don't ask for his phone number or suggest that he call. Don't hang around very long. Leave while he's trying to figure out what's new about you. It won't be easy, but it is a must if your plan is to work. Tell him you have to go, and then go. Your plan will probably need to incorporate two or three more "accidental" meetings before he invites you out again. Of course, at that point, everything's in your hands.

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