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Helping Hurting Hearts One e-Mail at a Time

The numbers of online daters looking for love is increasing. Bringing with it the challenges of frustration and disenchantment with the online dating process. Most people are not meeting the right people or even worse, they're not getting any results at all. Many are turning to Online Dating Coach, Chaszey Sandhriel.

"The number one reason why people are not getting results or at least the results they expected, is because they are not putting their most authentic Self into their profile. They withhold themselves or worse, lie, and then they wonder why their contradictory profile is giving them wishy-washy results." Chaszey says. "Every successful results-driven online profile is packed with honesty, strength and the clear picture of who you are and who you truly want as a life partner."

There are three points to remember when putting together a profile that will produce results:

1. A successful screen name When we first create our screen names we forget that the screen name we choose communicates poems, or not, to people who will be looking at our profile. Screen names like "TiredofmyJob," "WhoseYourDaddy," "WorshipMe" will not get you the results that you're looking for, no matter how great your personal profile reads. Pick a screen name where people cannot read between the lines trying to figure out what you're trying to communicate with it.

2. Choosing photos that work "People don't realize that the main headshot is what many people base their decision on and based on this one picture some may never even look at the profile, so your main photo is the most important one," says Chaszey. It's amazing to see how many people put photos up wearing their sunglasses and baseball cap, covering just about anything important. This will result in many people never even opening up their profile. Your main photo should show your eyes and your face and you should not wear a hat, even if you're bald. Photos that produce result show your eyes and face and you look into the camera. Photos should show you in a variety of settings, headshot, half body shot and full body shot. This is not the time to hide what you look like, this is the time to be honest.

3. Your profile Be clear, honest and fair when describing yourself There is no need to deceive anyone by hiding your full figured self from your audience. It is only a matter of time until you have to show up in person, at which time your true self will be in full view. So don't try to hide who you are. Never lie about things such as your age, how much you earn or what you do for a living. How do you expect to find the love of your life when you start off deceiving the whole world around you by your mere profile? Be honest, be authentic, be your Self. You're beautiful and gorgeous and handsome and successful just the way you are.

4. Be clear when describing the partner you want to attract to you Most people are asking for someone with qualities that they themselves have not mastered yet. Your spouse just dumped you because you cheated and now you make it clear in your profile that you're looking for someone honest and loyal. It's a contradiction. Once you get clear with who you are and you're able to truly look at every aspect of what has created you, then you can honestly and open-eyed look at the person you want to attract to yourself. Only when you can get crystal clear with who you are can you can ever clearer with whom you want.

Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach and helps Online Daters create sizzling results. You can visit her at www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com or call her at 415.419.7952.

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Before you make public your profile, visit Chaszey's website for additional tips that will help you get outstanding results. Or better yet, work with her directly and let her guide you through this exiting and fun journey.

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