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Extramarital Affair - Where and When is He Doing it?

Knowing your partner is having extramarital affair with some other woman is devastating - but how do you find out some of the clues you need about it?

You just want to find out - and if you just know how...

Before you go any further though, realise that who he is cheating with might not be as important as looking for a solution in the first place. That other woman may just take a role of 'the other woman' or the role of 'his escape' from the marriage problem HE may be having.

With that in mind though, no one can decide whether or not you should find out more information about his extramarital affair. If you want to find out, read on.

1. The Third Party

I have put this first in the list as once you have a good guess on who the other woman he is having the extramarital affair with, it is a little easier for you to find out other clues such as where and when the meeting actually take place.

Ok, how would you find out?

You can put down few names that he has mentioned recently (especially female names). There will only be a few - and no doubt he has mentioned these names in conversation before. At the start of the affair, he wouldn't have covered it up in any way - as normally affair is unplanned.

Usually the other woman has something in common with the cheating spouse, something that can lead him into the 'infatuation' stage with her. Yes, so the name will somehow be blurted out...no excuse about it.

Tips: If you happened to have freaked out in the process and he is clear that you are having this suspicion, try to recall the name of person/woman who he talked about just before you have this suspicion.

3. What is it they're doing

There must be things that they do - that you don't normally do with your spouse - the things that they have in common. Of course, as it is an extramarital affair there would be some physical intimacy involved some other times too.

Example of the activities can be sport, skateboarding, skiing, the gym etc.

3. Where is it?

Knowing him for a while you should have a fair idea on what he enjoys doing - without you. With this in mind you can also guess where those activities take place e.g. fishing in the lake and so on. Don't forget, the physical things would also happen somewhere and the safest place sometimes is your own house or area.

He can also meet her around their workplace if they work together.

4. When they are doing it?

This relates to number 3. I am sure you wonder how he can ever meet his other woman in YOUR place... huh?

Ok, if you live with him he sure knows your schedule - or he may have been more interested in your activity and schedule lately. As he is very close with you, he knows exactly which ones of your schedule would likely go through versus the ones that you may cancel in the last minute.

Whether you like it or not, you will have fixed schedule such as 'working late every Wednesday night' or 'Go out with the girls every Thursday night'. Some of them you just cannot get out of and he will use this very time to meet his significant other.

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Knowing this tip will hopefully help you in catching a cheating spouse. Check out cheating-spouse-alert.com to get much more tip on how to catch cheating spouse - red handed hopefully. By: Sally Webb.

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